There is No Downside to Being Good in Bed
I know I have gone on this rant several, and I mean several, times, but it is really a point I cannot make enough. Girls, you really need to understand that a lot of you are truly awful at sex. I mean downright bad. But guys will never tell you for fear of you not fucking them again, so you continue to think that just because we finished that you did something right. Nope, dead friggin’ wrong. Instead of launching into yet another rant about why women are, for the most part, extremely sub-par in the sexual arena, I will instead explain to you why you should devote more time to honing your skills.
There is no downside to being good at sex. None. ZERO. And being good at sex doesn’t mean being a slutty tramp, either. Quite the contrary. Moral casualty and sexual skill do not necessarily go together. You can sleep with only a handful of people and still be fantastic in bed, and, conversely, you can be a raging whore and have absolutely nothing to bring to the table other than ease of bedding. And some might argue if that was even a skill. The point is, don’t be afraid you’re going to turn into a “slut” just because you act like a porn star behind closed doors. Nobody else is going to know, and if they do, who cares? It’s a compliment.
If you are ugly, sexual skill will at least get you some male attention and maybe even a consistent booty call/desperate boyfriend who will cheat on you. Because we all know when guys get horny that fat girl who blew you on the drive home doesn’t seem so bad. If you are average looking, which most of you are, being a freak in bed will make your girlfriend and potential mate stock rise exponentially. Because no man finds it easy to leave a woman who gives 30-minute blowjobs, even if she is carrying 5 or10 extra pounds. Similarly, if you are hot, sexual skill will open doors to you for anything in the world you want. A 9 who talks dirty and watches porn with you will rate diamonds by date 3.
Sex is good for you. Just ask Dr. Ruth. It keeps you sane and healthy and if you are female and know what you like and can get it from your man, I guarantee you will be happier. Not that good sex is key to a healthy life, but it is a hell of a lot better for you than bad sex, or no sex at all. Women who are sexually open and creative have less hang-ups about their body, worry less about what other people think and exude confidence. Anything wrong with that? I think not.
A girl with a great sex drive can avoid a lot of relationship problems, too. Because people without kids only fight about sex and money. If you and your man are satisfied, that cuts your fights in half right there. Similarly, if you are open to trying just about anything, then the sex in your relationship will not get old or tired, so you will both be more inclined not to stray. And, just so none of you get confused, looking good does not have anything to do with being good in bed. A visual is nice, but in the long run, it goes away. And then you are left with drooping tits and an unsatisfied husband who kicks himself every day for choosing the hot girl who he nicknamed “Dead Fish” over that solid 6 that asked for it in the ass.
And, for the love of God girls, if you are not masturbating you are just wrong. Every guy in the world does it, and most women do too. To the ones who don’t? How on Earth are you going to be able to tell a guy what to do with your body if you don’t even know what to do with it? Did you ever think of that? Playing with yourself can also give you a chance to experiment with different things to see if you like them without involving another person. It’s not dirty, it’s not sinful. It’s a normal way to release sexual tension and feel good without having to deal with any consequences.
As a female, being good at sex is not something you are born with, but there is no excuse for not learning. So talk to your friends, open your mind, and learn everything you can now. Watch some porn, read some books, buy some toys. Experiment with yourself and/or your partner and drop your inhibitions in the bedroom. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Because the best way to keep a man, or to at least keep him coming back, is to give him a night he’ll never forget.